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I just purchased the book “Is It You, Me, or Adult A.D.D. I debated for sometime. My concern is am I looking for an excuse for my spouse? He tells me it is just the way he is. He has used my marital vows as justification a few times. I want to live a better life and to show my children we can have a better life. I experience much confusion and wonder if I have ADHD. When look back over the 17+ years we’ve been married, all major decisions have been made and initiated by me. I attend AlAnon as there is no ADHD support available where we live. My children are teenagers and they look at me sometimes as if I am crazy. I had a week break from my son and husband and life was almost boring from the lack of the constant chaos. I was diagnosed as going thru menopause at the age of 43. I wonder if the stress did it. I am rambling here but if anyone can relate to this please share with me.
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i would like to take the partners test iam non add gf and i nned some help please respond the book is great but sad for me as wew have split up twice from this and now that i have been enligtened and am educating myself i am trying to figure out how if at all i can approach him he is in denial please help
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Hi Lynn,
I’m not sure what you mean by the “partner’s test.” I did conduct a survey, the results of which are shared in this blog.
Everything that’s in the survey is in my book. So if you read that, there is much in there to help with the “denial.” I encourage you to read those chapters again, including the tips at the end.
good luck!
Gina
Charting the ADHD Roller Coaster's Thrills and Spills
Findings from a survey querying the partners of adults with ADHD
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